I am truly sorry.  This blog will no longer accept anonymous comments because one woman who I have chosen to cut like a cancer out of my life is using anonymous commenting to try to get under my skin and I am not going to let her.  Please feel free to make up a name if you are not comfortable using your own.  I am sorry it has had to come to this but I have now labelled at least 5 of her comments as spam including a recent revolting one.